Treat her/him as if she/he knows.

Honor her ability to choose, and trust that, in time, she will learn how to choose.

Teach her, through the clarity of your example, which means, you cannot teach her connection unless you are connected.

Do as much interacting with her as you can when you are feeling you’re very best, and any time you don't feel that good, make yourself scarce.

When she asks questions, applaud every one of them, and if you don't have the answer, still applaud her question. And let her know, early on, that the knowledge that she seeks, and the joy that is natural to her, will come from all kinds of places, not only through you.

Encourage her independence from you, as quickly as you can, so that she can discover the thrill of creating on her own.

Fill her with words of encouragement. If you find a moment of dissatisfaction with her, allow it. Do not speak it. But let the desire that is born out of that dissatisfaction fully develop until you have a full picture of what you know she is wanting, relative to that dissatisfaction. And once you have come to understand that, begin to express it to her.

When you speak to her, always speak what you feel. If you don't feel good, don't speak. If you are always speaking what you feel and you are only speaking when you feel good, what you are doing is connecting with and inviting into the relationship of loving energy and focus.

If she does something that displeases you, and you feel that it is your job to correct her, and you do, and you feel negative emotion, know that, in this moment of teaching your child, your connection to your Inner Being is not there with you. Come to trust the way you feel, and express to her only in your times of connection to positive energy.

Do not perceive her as fragile. She isn't. Learning or relearning through the experience of living is not a fragile thing. Just get happy and stay there. It is your job to appreciate her, to appreciate all things, to let life flow through you, to live your life and let her live hers.

Pure desire flows through her. And so, you are sort of swept up into the vortex of that Well-being. Enjoy, and remember. Give her an up close example of how well the Universe responds to someone who's in vibrational harmony with Source. The more decisions and wantings you have, the more Life Force is flowing through you, and the more she gets a model for that.

What she wants you to know is, it's going to be a great life, and it's going to be more fun all the time. And that, every day, nearly so, there will be a new experience and that there will be no ending to the unfolding of it. And for you to stand in your now and try to anticipate that for her would be utterly overwhelming to both of you.

Focus rather than plan. Stand where you are in your desire, offer it to the Universe, and let the Universe respond. Give her an opportunity to see a Deliberate Creator fully involved in one's life. Your connection with her was set into motion by the intentions you put forth before her birth. She understands you.

She understands all of this. And she's counting on you knowing that.

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