Meredith Born, M.A., Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, # 35822

Meredith Born has a private practice in Los Gatos, California. Reach her by phone at 408/358-2528 or by email.

Meredith Born, M.A., LMFT, is dedicated to inviting clients to experience peace and clarity in their lives. As a former acupressurist and founder of The Healing Connection in California, she incorporates knowledge of holistic therapies and spiritual practices into her work.

Meredith specializes in recovery from past abuse, trauma, and codependency. She uses a variety of modalities, including EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), a revolutionary technique for clearing trauma that addresses the non-verbal aspects of memory as well as those parts that can be spoken.

She teaches The Artists Way, The Vein of Gold, and Walking in this World, a process for discovering/recovering one's creative heart and living from that foundation--the ultimate in self-healing.

Another focus of attention is the Highly Sensitive Person, based on Elaine Aron's research, revealing that 15-20% of the general population is genetically, neurologically and physiologically different in processing sensory information. HSP's tend to pick up on subtleties in the environment, process deeply and look before they leap.

Meredith gives talks and teaches classes to the public about HSP's and the impact their sensitivity has on their health and relationships, as well as teaching therapists, doctors, nurses and bodyworkers how to work with HSP clients.


THE UNBLOCKING CREATIVITY SERIES: The Artist's Way, The Vein of Gold, Walking in this World. Julia Cameron's books have been a sensation. These courses use the books as a foundation for activities that unblock creativity in everyone--"artist" or not.

Identify your unique sources of self-criticism and decrease their power. Journal your thoughts, feelings, insights, and intentions. Learn to regularly schedule pleasurable time to be with yourself, and to honor your own creative impulses and urges.

Use this gradual, step-by-step process to carry you into a more fulfilling, joyful life. Reverse burnout and learn to live from your own creative source, a process as normal and miraculous as birth. No artistic experience is needed. The public is welcome; 24 CEUs (MFT, LCSW) are available for professionals, but not required.

The three classes are taught as a repeating series. Join any class and, if you wish, continue and take all three in sequence to fully integrate these generative, rewarding and joyful self-care practices.

 

WHEN: 12 Fridays, 12 - 2pm, starting periodically throughout the year, usually January, and April, and September

WHERE: 16575B Los Gatos-Almaden Road, Los Gatos, CA 95032

COST: $360; $325 if registered 2 weeks before first class. $50 additional for 24 CEUs  

Meredith Born, M.A., LMFT, sees creativity as the ultimate self-healing--a path that is nourishing, self-affirming and fun. PLEASE READ the assigned pages before the first class. Bring the text, an unlined journal larger than 8-1/2" X 11" (e.g. Bienfang sketchbook, 9"X 12") and (optional) any art materials (markers, pens, pastels, pencils) you happen to have.

PLEASE REGISTER by calling Meredith Born at 408/358-2528.


WORKING WITH HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE

Highly Sensitive Persons (HSP's) are 15-20% of the U.S. population, but 50% of your therapy, bodywork or medical practice. They have an inborn neurological sensitivity to sensory stimulation and thus are easily overwhelmed. Highly intuitive, conscientious and aware of others' moods, they have an affinity for therapy and spirituality.

HSP's have often been mislabeled and judged as inhibited, timid, introverted or shy. Psychotherapist can facilitate the HSP's recovery from these injuries and speed the process of reclaiming the positive nature of their sensitivity.

HSP's react strongly to medications and to medical procedures. Doctors and nurses can, with the information from this course, decrease their sense of frustration with patients who they may see as seemingly "spoiled," "neurotic" or "overreacting"—and instead use their patients' fine-tuned responses to improve care.

Distinguish between the effects of trauma, attachment style, and differences in temperament in your clients and patients—and grasp how these elements interact. Learn both the advantages and challenges of an HSP/HSP relationship and of an HSP/nonHSP relationship.

Meredith Born, LMFT and an HSP, feels compelled to teach this material because it has been so relevant to and helpful in her own life. She specializes in recovery from codependency, past trauma, and childhood abuse, as well as in Highly Sensitive People. She has taught classes at JFK University and privately, in creativity, communications, relationship, sexuality, codependency, and the constructive use of anger.

Next class:

Call Meredith Born at 408/358-2528 to ask about starting dates.

 



Taking the PAIN out of Relationship:
         Recovering from Codependency


Have you ever found yourself . . .
    *helping others at your own expense?
    *blaming others without taking any action?
    *feeling you have no choice but to put up with it all?
You are not alone.

Now seen as widespread, codependency was first defined as the relationship patterns of alcoholics/addicts, as well as those who love them.

Codependent behaviors are called dysfunctional because they don't work. They don't bring people closer, build trust, or support intimacy. True intimacy can't come from changing to "please" others or demanding that others change to "please" us. In this interactive class, move toward genuine intimacy through experiencing and letting go of each aspect of codependency in all of its subtlety.

From Codependency to Intimacy--Getting real: step out of the Victim-Rescuer-Persecutor roles. Learn the four steps to STOP being a victim.

Assertiveness and Boundaries--Do what you want and don't do what you don't want. Take responsibility for choosing, and reap the rewards. Learn to say "no" and sidestep others' guilt trips and manipulations.

Self-care and Self-fulfillment--Pour your energy into yourself and become more lovable in the process. Build habits that build you UP.

    When:  Saturday, May 5th, 2007, 10am to 5:30pm
    Where:  Los Gatos location
(directions sent upon registration)
    Cost:  $95 before April 21, 2007; or $110

    Call for information and registration: 408/358-2528


Meredith Born, MA, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, is dedicated to inviting people to experience the peace and clarity that comes with resolution. She specializes in recovery from past abuse, trauma, and codependency. Meredith uses a variety of methods, including EMDR, a revolutionary technique for clearing trauma that addresses the nonverbal aspects of memory as well as those parts that can be spoken. She also enjoys teaching The Artist's Way--a fun and affirming process for discovering and recovering one's creative heart, and living from that foundation. Meredith understands and supports working 12-step programs of recovery.

RECOMMENDED BOOKS

Amodeo, John: The Authentic Heart
    mature love
Aron, Elaine: The Highly Sensitive Person*
    The Highly Sensitive Person's Workbook
    The Highly Sensitive Person In Love*
    the product of groundbreaking research on the 15-20% of the population who perceive subtleties in the environment, process deeply, and are drawn to spiritual pursuits.
Barbach, Lonnie: The Pause
    positive menopause
Bass, Ellen and Davis, Laura: Courage To Heal
    healing from sexual abuse
Beattie, Melody: Codependent No More
    healing codependency
Beck, Charlotte Joko: Everyday Zen
Cameron, Julia: the Artist's Way*
    The Vein of Gold*
    Walking in this World*
    cultivating creativity
    Money Drunk, Money Sober
    recovery from money addictions
Ensler, Eve: The Vagina Monologues
    women's experience of sexuality
Evans, Patricia: The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to recognize it and how to respond
Gendlin, Eugene: Focusing
    how to attend to your own inner process
Golomb, Elan: Trapped In The Mirror
    for children of narcissistic parents
Gottman, John: Seven Principles of Successful Marriage
    what research has shown makes marriage work
Hanh, Thich Nhat: Touching Peace, etc.
    opening to mindfulness
Kasl, Charlotte: If the Buddha Dated
    a spiritual view of dating
Kingston, Karen: Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui
    change your house, change your life
Kornfield, Jack: The Path With Heart
Ladas, Alice; Whipple, Beverly; & Perry, John: The G-Spot
    simple, important advances in understanding sexuality
Lawson, Christine Ann: Understanding the Borderline Mother:
     Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile Relationship.
Lerner, Harriet Goldhor: The Dance of Anger
    The Dance of Deception
    The Dance of Intimacy
    relationship
Muir, Charles and Caroline: Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving
    sexuality focused on energy and connection
Mundis, Jerrold: Get Out of Debt, Stay Out of Debt, and Live Prosperously
    resolve financial worries without shame
Ross, Julia: The Diet Cure
    nutritional and hormonal imbalances that create extra weight and how to counteract them.
Schaef, Anne Wilson: Women's Reality
Smith, Manuel: When I Say No, I Feel Guilty
    assertiveness
Spring, Janis Abrahms: How Can I Forgive You?
Warner, Ralph: Get A Life: You Don't Need A Million To Retire Well
    what you really need for a happy retirement

*I teach classes based on these books.